Sunday, December 14, 2008
Random...
how would you feel, when the boy that you love whole heartedly, told you that
" actually, i had never felt love since i had broken up with my previous girlfriend"
how would you feel?
the worst thing is that, for the few weeks back... he got text you about, "i'm sorry if i gave you hope. but in my heart i do love you."
which should you believe?
would you feel damn crushed? would you feel being mocked at? would you feel treated like a doll?
i guess, the quote about "The cruelest thing a guy can do to a girl,is to let her fall in love when he doesn't intend to catch her fall." is true!
why make the girl fall at the very first place, when you don't have the intention to catch her. it will only hurt her more.
Giving the girl the wrong impression equals to hurt...
Giving the girl hopes equals to hurt...
Giving the girl empty promises equals to hurt...
i guess in here, the girl has more hurt effect rather than the guy.
how can a guy just say 'helovesyou' one day, and then' since when did i say iloveyou'
it truly hurt the girl. eventhough if she didn't express it in her facial expression.
it really pity her.
To guys out there, please spare them...think about the hurt and heart ache the girl would feel when she was treated like that.
To guys out there, never say 'iloveyou' to a girl if you don't mean it... you may not know if the girl really takes your words for real. it will only destruct the girl, it will not cause the guy any emotional effect.
Guys will only understand the girl's hurt, if only they were granted the same level of emotion in their life.
That is why Mens are from Mars while Womens are from Venus...
they have different character and different needs.
After hurting her, no words can heal the wound she suffered. she may say that she had forgiven you, but deep in her heart... she is still aching.
i can feel how the girl would feel, when she was told like that. it is because, i had gone through it before. it hurts so badly. when you had blindly thought helovesyou, when the truth is that he doesn't. it crushes the girl's heart into tiny pieces. a word of 'sorry' can't redeem her hurt that you had caused to her.
i was slapped with the "actually i had never felt loved since i broke up with my previous girlfriend" it shot right through. i was crushed just like that. i had let myself be blinded by your sweet-talks... it was too late, i had been crushed tremendously. after being blinded love of you and up high in the sky of love, you just came and throw me down fall right through the ground with your 'beautiful statement'
our memories keep playback in my mind... it hurts horribly... how i wished, you were in my shoe...able to feel my hurt and aches...
seriously, if you never felt loved... don't say the loveyou... cause it means a thousand different meaning to different individual.
i had been hurt by the guy whom i love whole heartedly, therefore i hope the other guys other there do spare the ladies that you know... pity them.
your 'beautiful statement' still playback in my mind... after being slapped by your 'beautiful statement' lot'sa stuff keep flodding in my mind...
- did you really felt unloved?
- who am i to you?
- why did you do this to me?
- i'm just a doll to you?
- did you know i felt hurt?
silenttearsandhurt:JUU
8:57 PM
